Step-parenting

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or her feeling of guilt is, for the adults (parents) to visit with the children right away. Discuss the changes and how they may affect everyday life, and provide them with non-judgmental information about what is happening in a straightforward way. Do not underestimate your child’s ability to understand that changes are occurring. Common sense dictates, that you don't tell them all of the messy details, but a clear explanation that is age appropriate, of the situation which includes the assurance, that the child did nothing wrong, you could possible and your Dad/Mom and I will always love you. No matter where we are or what we are doing.
Guilt can also consume a child if they feel disloyal to one biological parent. A child who likes or enjoys the company of their stepparent feels disloyal to their biological parent this is not an uncommon occurrence. The accompanying guilt may be a contributing factor in a child's behavior toward a stepparent and can cause the child to then ...

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personal power, it might help to give them as many choices as possible for different aspects of their lives. Giving children choices like selecting
what they want to eat for breakfast, what they want to wear, or how to spend their allowance may help the children see that they do in fact have some control, which in-turn may help eliminate or lessen their feelings of powerlessness and helplessness. Children also need to be included in discussions about new rules, family activities, etc. Even though adults may have the final say, children's needs should be heard and considered. Empower the child by showing them that their opinion has value.
Children develop a deep sense of commitment to ...

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